Bunnie Xo, the popular podcast host and social media personality, has offered an intimate glimpse into her opulent new residence, marking a significant personal milestone just two months after her separation from country music star Jelly Roll. The reveal came via a candid video shared on Instagram, where Bunnie, whose real name is Alisa DeFord, gave her friend and fellow content creator Matt Matthews a tour of her sprawling estate. The footage showcased the extravagant features of the property, which appears to be the home Bunnie and Jelly Roll (born Jason DeFord) were in the process of building prior to their split.
Matthews’ reactions throughout the tour highlighted the sheer scale and luxury of the home. "I live in a trailer compared to this," he quipped, his disbelief evident as he navigated the expansive rooms. The tour revealed an open-air balcony featuring a rainfall shower, a detail that elicited further astonishment from Matthews, who humorously declared, "I am so poor." The opulence continued with a bathroom boasting black-and-white marble floors and floral ceilings, a hidden staircase concealed behind a bookshelf, and an exceptionally large bed outfitted with two king-sized mattresses. Matthews’ playful, yet pointed, remark about the formidable bed, "Who is she f–king in this bed?" was met with laughter from Bunnie, underscoring the unconventional and open nature of their relationship dynamics.
Bunnie’s personal spaces were equally lavish. Her "glam rooms" were designed with meticulous attention to detail, reflecting her persona. The author of Stripped Down: Unfiltered and Unapologetic showcased a massive walk-in closet, complete with a dedicated area solely for her extensive shoe collection. Adjacent to this was her "makeup room," featuring illuminated marble countertops, further emphasizing the luxurious aesthetic of her home. Matthews’ lighthearted jab, "I’m not even happy for you. This is stupid," served as a humorous counterpoint to the overwhelming display of wealth and taste.
The property itself holds significant sentimental value for Bunnie. It was the dream home she and Jelly Roll had been constructing together before their relationship took a turn. The couple announced their decision to end their marriage in May, after a decade together. Bunnie confirmed the amicable nature of their separation on her podcast, Dumb Blonde. "My husband and I are ending this marriage on the best possible terms," she stated on the June 18 episode. She further elaborated that Jelly Roll, demonstrating his characteristic generosity, had agreed to transfer ownership of the compound to her as part of the divorce settlement, acknowledging its profound importance to her.
At the time of their separation announcement, Bunnie also hinted at Jelly Roll’s commitment to her financial well-being post-divorce. "I joke around with him. I’m like, ‘Well, you didn’t take care of me in the marriage, but you’re taking care of me in the divorce,’" she quipped, affectionately referring to him as "a f–king king." This sentiment was echoed in the finalization of their divorce earlier this month, solidifying their commitment to supporting each other even after the dissolution of their marriage.
The dissolution of their union has been characterized by an extraordinary level of grace and mutual respect. Jelly Roll himself addressed the situation during a concert, reassuring fans that he and Bunnie remained "best friends" and would "always be best friends." He emphatically refuted any rumors of infidelity, stating unequivocally, "Nobody cheated on nobody." This public affirmation of their enduring bond underscored the unique foundation of their relationship, which has consistently defied conventional norms.
A Timeline of Unconventional Love and Partnership
The story of Jelly Roll and Bunnie Xo is one that has captivated fans with its raw honesty and unconventional trajectory. Their paths first crossed in Las Vegas in August 2015, a period when Jelly Roll was still an emerging artist, performing to small crowds and living in his van. Bunnie, then known as Alisa DeFord, recounted on the podcast Bussin’ With The Boys that their initial encounter felt fated, describing it as a moment where her "soul was like, ‘There you are.’" Despite acknowledging they weren’t each other’s typical "type" – Jelly Roll famously has a fondness for Taylor Swift – a powerful connection was forged.
A brief period of separation followed, during which Bunnie was involved in an unhealthy relationship. However, their paths reconnected in October 2015, and Bunnie found herself "just smitten." Following the dissolution of her previous relationship and with Jelly Roll’s encouragement, she provided him with her phone number. Their connection deepened as Jelly Roll sought her advice regarding his daughter, Bailee Ann, from a previous relationship. The platonic bond transitioned into a romantic one in July 2016, coinciding with Jelly Roll’s return to Las Vegas for video shoots. A night of shared intimacy, fueled by alcohol, led to a profound conversation about their future plans. It was during this conversation that Jelly Roll reportedly asked, "What’s your five-year plan?" a question that catalyzed their decision to embark on a shared life together.
From Vegas Chapel to Shared Dreams
Their commitment quickly materialized. "We got married a month later," Bunnie revealed on Bussin’ With The Boys, detailing their August 2016 wedding at the Stained Glass Wedding Chapel in Las Vegas. Their shared "five-year plan" was not only conceived but meticulously executed, culminating in the purchase of their own home. Bunnie also harbored aspirations of launching her own podcast. Jelly Roll, recognizing her passion, encouraged her endeavors. "When she came out of the sex working industry, I’m sitting down with her and I’m like, ‘Well, what are you passionate about?’" he recalled in an interview on The Howard Stern Show. Bunnie’s desire for a talk show format led to the creation of her Dumb Blonde podcast in 2019, a venture she successfully launched after exiting the sex work industry in the same year.
Bunnie’s entrepreneurial spirit and financial acumen played a crucial role in supporting Jelly Roll’s burgeoning music career. She invested in his 2017 album, Addiction Kills, and provided financial assistance for him to gain custody of his daughter, Bailee Ann.
Family Foundations: Bailee Ann and Noah
Jelly Roll’s journey as a father has been deeply intertwined with his personal growth and relationship with Bunnie. His daughter, Bailee Ann, was born in 2008 while he was incarcerated for drug dealing. He has often spoken of her profound impact on his life, stating in his documentary Jelly Roll: Save Me that she "saved my life." Bailee entered his life when he was in the nascent stages of his music career, living in his van. Despite his initial struggles with consistent presence, Jelly Roll committed to seeking full custody of Bailee, particularly as her mother faced addiction challenges.
During this critical period, Bunnie, though in the early stages of their romance, provided invaluable support. She funded a lawyer and "bankrolled the whole s–t" for Jelly Roll’s custody battle. This shared commitment to Bailee’s well-being prompted a significant reevaluation of their own lives. Bunnie reflected in the documentary, "Who was I, us, to take her from her mom and bring her into our house if we’re over here just popping pills and doing the same thing? What makes us better?" This introspection led to a personal transformation for Bunnie, who declared, "I was just like, ‘This is it. I’m done.’ And I literally never touched a pill again." She embraced a maternal role, affectionately writing for Bailee’s Sweet 16 in 2024, "Thank you Papa Roll for giving me the chance to be the mom I never had."
Jelly Roll’s family expanded further with the birth of his son, Noah, in August 2016, shortly before his wedding to Bunnie and during his custody proceedings for Bailee. "God Bless this Child to be everything I am not!" he wrote on Facebook at the time, naming his son Noah Buddy DeFord and expressing his hope that neither of his children would have to bear the consequences of his past actions. While Noah’s life has been kept largely private, Bunnie has shared occasional glimpses, such as a TikTok Q&A where Noah revealed his favorite sport and beach activities. Crucially, Bunnie emphasized that she always sought permission from Noah’s mother before sharing such content. The relationship between Bunnie, Jelly Roll, and Noah’s mother is notably cordial and supportive. Bunnie has praised Noah’s mother as "one stand up chick" and expressed gratitude for her role in Noah’s life, particularly as Jelly Roll and Bunnie navigate their demanding touring schedules. Bunnie cherishes her role as a stepmother, writing on Instagram in October 2024, "Nothing brings me more joy then getting to watch my bonus babies grow up."
Navigating Infidelity and Rebuilding Trust
The couple’s journey has not been without its challenges. Two years into their marriage, they experienced a period of separation. While the precise reasons were not fully disclosed publicly at the time, Jelly Roll later admitted to an affair. In an October 2025 episode of the Human School podcast, he confessed, "One of the worst moments of my adulthood was when I had an affair on my wife." He described the profound realization of his error and the deep love he held for Bunnie.
This period of introspection and remorse led to significant efforts to repair their relationship. "I did a lot of work to repair that relationship," Jelly Roll stated. "The repair has been special, man. We’re stronger than we could’ve ever been." Despite the pain of the infidelity, the couple’s commitment to each other ultimately prevailed, leading to a stronger and more resilient bond. Bunnie reflected on this period in a TikTok post in February 2023, writing, "Who knew that us breaking up in 2018, me moving back to Vegas & you coming to get me back – would have put us on this wild journey called life." She emphasized their commitment to rebuilding their relationship on a solid foundation.
Public Recognition and Personal Milestones
As Jelly Roll’s career soared, he and Bunnie made their red carpet debut at the 2022 CMA Awards, a moment Bunnie described in the documentary Jelly Roll: Save Me as them being "like the Addams Family of the country era." Their enduring commitment was further solidified in 2023 when they renewed their vows, seven years after their initial marriage. Bunnie shared a heartfelt tribute, recalling Jelly Roll’s promise during their early days: "’Bunnie, our lives won’t always be like this. You won’t have to do what you do for much longer, we’re going to figure this out. I promise you.’" His fulfillment of that promise, she noted, was a testament to their shared journey of overcoming adversity and building a life grounded in love and mutual respect.
Bunnie’s influence extends beyond her personal support; she has been a significant muse for Jelly Roll’s music. Songs like "Woman" and "Kill a Man" are directly inspired by her. He explained to Entertainment Tonight that "Kill a Man" was an attempt to write a love song that retained his "manliness" while conveying the depth of his love and vulnerability. They have also collaborated on music videos, including "Wheels Fall Off" and "Lonely Road."
Their mutual admiration is consistently evident. Bunnie frequently celebrates Jelly Roll’s achievements, recognizing his two decades of hard work leading to his success. She describes his music as "therapeutic hymns for the broken," acknowledging its power to heal and connect with listeners. Jelly Roll, in turn, expresses immense pride in Bunnie’s accomplishments, particularly her success on social media and with her podcast, noting how she "inspire[s] people especially other women."
Defending Their Love and Navigating Health Challenges
Bunnie Xo has proven to be a fierce advocate for Jelly Roll, particularly in the face of online criticism. She publicly addressed negative comments regarding his weight, sharing on her Dumb Blonde podcast in April 2024 that he had withdrawn from the internet due to the relentless bullying. She emphasized that while celebrities are expected to withstand such scrutiny, these comments can have a significant emotional toll. Bunnie’s message to bullies was clear: "Don’t bully people, because you never know where they are mentally." She vowed to stand up for "all the f–king underdogs" and protect her family from unwarranted attacks.
Jelly Roll has also been candid about his personal health struggles, including a significant weight loss of over 200 pounds and, as he revealed on The Joe Rogan Experience in December 2025, pre-teen boy testosterone levels and other health concerns that made him feel as though he was "dying."
Continuing the Journey: IVF and Parenthood
Despite their separation, Jelly Roll and Bunnie remain committed to their shared dream of expanding their family through IVF. Bunnie announced on Instagram in June 2024 that they had decided to share their IVF journey, acknowledging the challenges ahead. "And w/ all odds stacked against us, it’s already been hard & we have only just begun," she wrote. The couple has been exploring all available options with IVF doctors, driven by a newfound desire to "add to our family" and create "a piece of us together." Bunnie has also spoken about the potential need for surrogacy due to personal health risks associated with carrying a child. While acknowledging the complexities, she maintains faith, stating on her podcast, "If it’s meant to be it’s meant to be. And if not, we can always adopt."
Their divorce, filed in May 2026 according to Tennessee court records, was reportedly triggered by a falling out on Mother’s Day 2026, following a period of poor communication. However, both Jelly Roll and Bunnie have consistently reiterated their commitment to co-parenting and maintaining their profound friendship, a testament to the enduring strength of their bond and their shared values. Their love story, marked by its unconventional beginnings and unwavering support, continues to unfold, proving that some connections transcend traditional definitions of relationships.
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